Bridesmaid at town hall door. With warm spring months comes the white gown season. Talking about weddings, the latest hot topic in the news here is the decision by a French court to annul a young couple’s marriage because the bride was not a virgin, a decision that is causing outrage throughout the country. The groom, a recently converted muslim, went to court on the morning following his wedding night complaining he had been "deceived on an essential element of the marriage" (article 180 of our Civil Code) and was granted an annulment on those grounds. Read the full story here: Times on line. The court's decision was condemned by the Government, media, feminists and civil rights organisations with the view that it is unacceptable that the law be used to repudiate a bride on religious grounds, and that a woman's sexual life before marriage is her own business. The bride's lawyer tried to calm things down by arguing that the decision was justified by the bride’s deception, not her sexual history. “Quite simply it is about a lie,” he said. “Religion did not motivate the decision . . . but it is true that religious convictions played a role.” Mmmm.The story also shows how sensitive our country has become to Muslim matters. And that in itself is as much a reason to worry as anything else. The paper in the Times reports that while requests for annulments have risen sharply to nearly 2,000 a year in France, experts could recall no case involving non-virginity. Will this story remain a one-off? The fact is that an increasing number of Muslim girls are resorting to hymen reconstruction surgery to avoid problems with their families and husbands-to-be...
Demoiselle d'honneur à l'entrée de la mairie. Avec les beaux jours arrive la vague de robes blanches du samedi. Ce qui m'amène au sujet qui fait la une des média depuis 48 heures : l'annulation d'un mariage par un tribunal de Lille à la demande du mari musulman parce que sa femme n'était pas vierge. C'est dès le lendemain de la nuit de noces que le marié furieux est venu déposer auprès du Tribunal son recours en annulation au motif qu'il avait été trompé "sur l'une des qualités essentielles du conjoint", selon l'article 180 du code civil. La mariée a reconnu en effet qu'elle avait menti à son mari sur ce point et elle ne s'est pas opposée à l'annulation. Faut-il comme le gouvernement, les média, les défenseurs des droit humains et toutes les associations féministes, se scandaliser de cette décision ? Oui sans doute, ça a été ma première réaction. Quand Elisabeth Badinter, pour qui j'ai une grande admiration, se dit ulcérée, je la comprends (lire l'article). S'il s'agit de défendre la liberté sexuelle des femmes, musulmanes ou non, j'en suis. Ma deuxième réaction : bon débarras pour la mariée, elle aurait de toutes façons été malheureuse avec un homme pareil !
Mais je vois aussi ce que cette histoire révèle de l'état de tension de notre société envers tout ce qui est musulman et ça c'est presque plus inquiétant que tout le reste. Car les experts révèlent que si les annulations de mariage sont en constante augmentation avec 2000 demandes par an, aucune avant celle-ci n'avait pour raison la non-virginité. Alors faut-il vraiment faire mousser l'affaire ? En soi, sans doute pas. Mais les chiffres montrent qu'un nombre croissant de jeunes filles musulmanes ont recours à la chirurgie reconstructrice d'hymen pour ne pas avoir d'ennuis avec leur famille et leur futur mari... c'est pas gagné ! avignon photo - demoiselle d'honneur, mariage - wedding in avignon


Original May 1968 poster: "the fight continues". Can you see the link between the three images? The fighting spirit image is clearly re-utilized by political parties and the distribution industry alike.
Throughout the past month the country has been navel gazing over its rowdy history - fourty years ago, France was paralyzed for a full month by massive student and worker strikes that shaked the country. A large number of reforms followed, as well as social changes. I, as a child, remember that public schools became co-educational after May 1968. All my primary school years were in a girls only school. In September 1968 I started secondary school and there were boys in our class. When we were going up the stairs, they stayed behind in an attempt to look under the girls' skirts (kilts were all the rage I remember)...
In the middle of Pasteur square (place Pasteur) sits a charming stone basin and water fountain. Next to it is a cafe and snack shaded by four horse chestnuts (
If you look at yesterday's shot again you'll see that while the crew were cleaning the top deck the guests were having breakfast in the cabin below. Now meet the cook who was frying their eggs: when he saw the rest of the crew getting all the attention with their broom show he came out of the galley, all smiles with pan in one hand and egg shells in the other. How do you like your eggs for breakfast?
Photo taken at 8:30 a.m. today. Tim (left) and Remy (right) will be your crew if you take a one-week
Pickpockets usually operate in pairs. One attracts your attention while the other... ;-)
Saint Pierre church again : along its right hand side is this beautifully ornate metal piece which looks like a door but doesn't open. Because it gives onto a very narrow street that allows no distant views, I can't show you a larger view than this. I worked on macro instead, then zooming out. Will you recognise the motif I focused on?


This is probably the best photo I can ever take to give you an idea of how high above the water sits the Rocher des Doms, the rocky outcrop on which the Popes' Palace and cathedral were built. Traces of human occupation on this hill go back to prehistorical times. The location provided a natural vantage point and protection against invaders and floods.

Last Sunday was the annual fête nautique, which as you can guess is all about having fun around boats. The best part of it is making kayaks and canoes available to the public free of charge all afternoon from 2 to 6 pm. The weather was just perfect and the crowds enjoyed the day!








I got home yesterday, not by plane as my previous post might suggest, but by train - possibly the best way to get here : with the TGV (high speed train) it's only a short 2 hour and 30 minute ride from Paris, whereas it takes close to seven hours by car... The station, built in 2001, is a most interesting structure that resembles an upside down boat hull 350 metres long and almost 15 metres high. More
Two positive sides to this station: the slight curve in the metal structure is very pleasant to the eye and the glass side lets plenty of natural light in. Negative points : it gets very hot in the summer and circulation spaces aren't very well designed, the station gets easily congested in times of heavy traffic.




"Sweet love" featured above is the rose that received the "people's choice" award. It was my own favorite, I voted for it. This soft peach-cream coloured rose has the most exquisite scent, reminiscent of baby powder. It's the one featured on the first photo of my previous poste about the alterarosa show.

Absolutely no parking for aeroplanes in rue Petramale.


The city really switched into high tourist season mode last weekend: not only was there a rose show on inside the Popes Palace, but also a potters' market just outside it, on Palace square (Place du Palais). A great variety of pottery was on display, from dishes and mugs to vases and pots. Here a live demonstration of a potter's work. When you look at both photos, do pay particular attention to the looks on people's faces. Three different ways of showing intensity.
The mother-to-be watches the vase taking similar round curves to her own. It was made especially for her. When it was finished her husband and herself left the imprint of their hands on both sides.
Every Saturday morning there's a market in Villeneuve-lez-Avignon. Seeing this man wearing gold and green sent me thinking of my Aussie friends. I am fortunate that some of my blogging friends will actually be visiting next summer.
You could buy yourselves a couple of extra ancestors...
Or perhaps a gilded garden furniture set...
... or else a boat that you could sail home in? As you can see my selection only includes items that are lightweight and easily fitted into a suitcase! All right, perhaps you could just go for that set of red tins on the right: sucre, farine, café, pâtes, thé - do you understand all these words? That would help you practice your French on a daily basis in your kitchen... All of you, do you enjoy antiques and flea markets? What kind of thing do you look for when you go?
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